Changes Happening

Some very large changes are happening with Mom and they are indications that the end is drawing near.   The hospice folks are telling us to expect the her to pass in the next 3 – 6 weeks  Here are the two most significant changes.  Number one is that over the last couple days here tube feedings have ended.  This was her main source of food and nourishment.  Her body is shutting down, so the tube feedings were beginning to be of little help.  Naturally cutting most of the food will speed up deteriation of her body, but the reality is that her body is pretty much there anyway.  She was also ready for them to stop.  Change number 2 is that her pain and discomfort level continues to increase.  The hospice folks indicate that it is likely this could to continue to grow.  It could grow to the point that they can’t control it, so arrangements have been made to give her drugs, if needed, that would keep her sudated until the end.  These aren’t easy things to read or hear.  We are now praying for the end to come quickly.  That definetly isn’t easy to write or to do, but the way this disease works, things only get worse from here.  Mom is very tired, in a lot of pain, and ready for it to be over.  Please join us in praying for her comfort in these end days.

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2 Responses to “Changes Happening”

  1. Debbie Hibbert Says:

    Matt, thank you for sharing this news … I know that wasn’t easy even though, as you say, your mom is ready for it to be over. Peggy Hanson and I were just talking about your mom yesterday. Your mom has encouraged me here, in my job, since the night of my job interview 19 years ago this month (she was part of the interview team). I have enjoyed her friendship ever since.

    Please KNOW that she (and your entire family) are in my prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do, or anything we can do here in the office.

  2. Cal and Dee Smith Says:

    Matt, Please know Cal and I are praying for you and the whole family. We know this has to be so hard on all of you. We pray the Lord’s will be done for your Mom. If He is going to take her home soon, we pray she is pain free. Again we love you all. God bless, Cal and Dee

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